Sick Of Feeling Insecure? Here’s How You Can Tackle Those Demons Today

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Our mind can be our worst enemy at times. A negative mindset can cause it to feel all kinds of things, but mostly this will be self-doubt and insecurity. This can be apparent when it comes to how we think about ourselves. Today our looks can be a big indication of how we feel. This might be to do with your weight, perhaps not being able to lose those few extra pounds you gained. It might be your skin breaking out in spots, and you don’t know why or how to help the situation. You may just feel insecure in yourself because of your relationship or how others make you feel. It can be an abundance of things all rolled into one. But this kind of thought process isn’t healthy, and insecurity can lead to having zero confidence and in some severe cases anxiety. But feeling insecure can often be resolved through taking actions yourself, by changing your lifestyle and how you think. So I thought it would be a good idea to share with you exactly how you can tackle those demons and get your life back on track.

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Figure out what is making you feel insecure

Sometimes just taking a moment to yourself to figure out what is going on in your mind is a good thing. We can feel insecure for many reasons so try and work out what triggers those feelings. Are you in an untrusting relationship that’s causing you to feel upset? Are you unhappy with how you look? Sometimes it’s a particular area that we need to work on like our teeth or our skin. Do you not like anything about your body? Does your weight get you down? Figuring out what cause you to feel these feelings of insecurity is key to banishing the demons away from your mind.

Sick Of Feeling Insecure? Here's How You Can Tackle Those Demons Today

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What’s real and what is in your head?

Many times we can find ourselves looking in the mirror and hating what we see. Or looking at our relationship and thinking things are bad. The truth be known, sometimes these things are in our heads. What we see in the mirror will not be what people see. Your relationship may not be bad at all and it just feels that way because of how you feel. What will be difficult is working out what are real issues, that you can work on, and what is fake and in your head. The minute you realize that what you thought was a problem isn’t one at all, the moment you can move forward with things.

 

Can you take action?

Sometimes these things just need you to take some control and action. Allowing yourself some time to figure out what is causing the issues can be the only difference you need to make. It highlights the issues and then you can choose to take control and try and resolve them. Insecurity feelings run deeper than just what’s on the surface. But you have to start somewhere.

For things that you don’t like about your body consider these things. When it comes to your face and teeth, these sorts of things can be resolved by taking some action to make changes. Your teeth can be taken care of by taking up a plan from a place like Guardian Life. This will encourage you to have regular check ups and keep your dental health in check. Resulting in a more confident you and a smile to be proud of. Your skin can be sorted by perhaps visiting your doctor if it’s severe, or changing the products you use. A well managed skincare routine can work wonders.

You will find that a lot of what people are insecure about when it comes to their own bodies, can be sorted by taking control of things. Weight can be managed with exercise and a healthy balanced diet. While I understand that not everything can be fixed. We can’t make ourselves taller, for example, but we can work on cosmetic things, and it can make things better.

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Surround yourself with positive people

You will be surprised by how much we feel about ourselves in influenced by people around us. Surrounding yourself with negative people can make you inadvertently feel negative. These people can make you think something is bad when there isn’t anything to worry about at all. What you have to find out is which of these people is zapping away at your positive energy and get rid of those people out of your lives. Or at least not surround yourself with them. Instead, find people that make you feel good. That are positive in general about life and how things are. You won’t believe the difference this can make to your feelings of insecurity. Instead of feeling lost and negative you will become confident and more assured of things. Just by being around people who feel and act that way.

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Change can be a good thing

Once you have identified what makes you feel insecure, and even to the effect of who, then changing things up can be a good thing. This might be as simple as changing your behavior and actions towards things. Take a relationship, for example, sometimes insecurity can spark from past hurts. Changing how you think about your relationship could be all it takes. Accepting what happened in the past and letting it go. Change can happen in many ways, and the best thing you can do is workout which ones will help you with how you feel. It might mean changing your lifestyle. This could be your diet, the amount of exercise you take. It might mean changing your job; this could present new and exciting challenges and better prospects for the future. It can often be the fear of the unknown that stops us from doing things going forward. Again if it’s down to your looks like crooked teeth or bad hair. All of these things can be changed because you have the power to do it. It’s your body, your mind, and your life at the end of the day.

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The past is the past. It can’t be changed

Many times we found ourselves in a situation where the past affects our future. This can be for many reasons. The past can have an affect on the opinion we have about ourselves, it can affect relationships and friendships. It can affect how we work or act in the workplace. But the main thing to remain about the past is that it is exactly that. The past. So it can’t be changed or redone. But the effect it can have on our future is mind blowing. We don’t ever forget how that ex treated us, so that means our current partner will do the same. It doesn’t. But that doesn’t mean our minds will agree. In the past, we may have been teased at school about our teeth or a facial feature. Children can be cruel. But it doesn’t mean that what they said was necessarily true. Whatever happened in the past has to have a line drawn under it so you can move forward. The future is what it’s all about. Don’t let the past dictate how it all plays out.

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